Practical Tips for Traveling With Multiple Kids (That Actually Work for Our Family)

How we plan flexible days, build in rest, and still enjoy being out together

Traveling with multiple kids looks different for every family.

For us, it doesn’t mean sticking tightly to our normal routine or pulling back from experiences to protect it. Our kids are adaptable — because we’ve allowed them to be — and we’ve learned how to plan days that include both movement and rest, structure and flexibility.

Here’s what actually works for our family when we travel.

1. Plan the Day — Not Every Minute

We don’t wing our travel days, but we also don’t over-script them.

We plan:

• where we’re going

• what our main priorities are

• when we’ll likely need a slower pace

But within that framework, we allow the day to unfold. Having a general plan gives structure, while flexibility gives freedom. That combination has worked well for our kids — and for us.

2. Build Rest Into the Experience (Not Away From It)

Rest doesn’t always mean leaving the park or heading back to the hotel.

For our family, rest often looks like:

• stroller naps

• slower walks

• snack breaks on a bench

• sitting and people-watching

• quiet moments during shows or rides

Kids can recharge while still being part of the experience. We’ve found that this approach keeps the day flowing without completely stopping it.

3. Trust Your Kids’ Ability to Adapt

Our kids do well traveling because we’ve allowed them to learn flexibility over time.

We don’t expect travel to look like home — and because of that, our kids don’t either. They’ve learned how to:

• nap on the go

• adjust to longer days

• communicate when they need a break

• stay engaged even when plans shift

Kids often rise to the expectations we set — especially when they feel supported and included.

4. Expect Imperfection — and Hold Plans Loosely

Something will go differently than expected.

Lines will be longer. Someone will get tired earlier than planned. A ride may close. These moments don’t mean the trip is failing — they’re simply part of traveling with kids.

Holding expectations loosely allows you to respond with patience instead of frustration.

5. Involve Kids in the Experience

When kids feel included, they’re more engaged and cooperative.

We let our kids:

• help choose activities

• share what they’re excited about

• take small responsibilities during the day

Ownership creates buy-in — and it makes travel feel like something we’re doing together, not something being done to them.

6. Remember What You’re Really Traveling For

Family travel isn’t about doing everything perfectly or seeing it all.

It’s about:

• shared experiences

• time together

• creating memories in the middle of real life

Some of our favorite moments have come from slower stretches, unexpected pauses, and laughter over things that didn’t go as planned.

Final Encouragement

Traveling with multiple kids doesn’t have to mean constant compromise or stress.

With thoughtful planning, built-in flexibility, and trust in your kids’ ability to adapt, family travel can feel enjoyable and life-giving — even in busy places like Disney.

You don’t need to copy someone else’s system. You just need a rhythm that works for your family.